R U a Victim or a Victor?
The following contrasts are meant to help you understand which camp you are in. If you are in the victim mindset camp - then God wants to change your paradigm and transition you to the victorious mindset.
Contrasting the victim and victorious mindset (for the sake of time I will not use the word “mindset” in these contrasts):
1. The victim believes the whole world is against them /
The victor believes the whole world needs them
2. The victim sees a challenge as an obstacle /
The victor sees the obstacle as an opportunity
3. The victim blames others for their failure /
The victor takes personal responsibility for success or failure
4. The victim depends on handouts from others to succeed /
The victor makes do with what they already have to succeed
5. The victim is never satisfied and always looking for something more /
The victor is grateful for what they already have and build upon that for more in life
6. The victim feels like everybody owes them something /
The victor believes nobody owes them anything
7. The victim lives off other people /
The victor lives to bless other people
8. The victim will end his days bitter /
The victor will end his days satisfied
9. The victim only sees closed doors /
The victor only sees open doors
10. The victim spreads a negative attitude to others /
The victor spreads a positive attitude
11. The victim is pessimistic /
The victor is optimistic
12. The victim gives up quickly if they don't succeed /
The victor doesn't quit until they succeed
13. The victim has few real friends /
The victor empowers and makes many friends
14. The victim repels people /
The victor attracts people
15. The victim is always fighting for “their rights”/
The victor lives to champion the rights of others
16. The victim has a critical spirit and is judgmental of others /
The victor blesses others
17. The victim imagines people are against him /
The victor imagines people are for him
18. The victim plays on the emotions of others /
The victor releases the passion of others
19. The victim uses people for what they can get from them /
The victor is a catalyst to inspire people to flourish
20. The victim has faith in evil to make things worse /
The victor has faith in God to make things better.